Resources

If you’re Jewish and struggle with unwanted same-sex attraction (SSA), this site is for you!

Living with unwanted Same-Sex Attraction as a religious Jew can be very challenging. In the frum world people typically don’t accept or identify with the label “gay” and prefer instead to explore and address underlying issues and embrace our authentic masculinity, to help us live meaningful and healthy fulfilling frum lives.

Our hope with this site is to help you find true freedom to be the YOU that Hashem originally created and to support you on your journey to find freedom from constantly struggling.  We invite you to explore the resources below and the articles on the right side of the page to find hope in the shared experience of others.

This site is managed by “Dovid” a fellow brother who’s been on a journey of addressing his own Unwanted Same-Sex attraction. Dovid is available for consultation and support for men 21 years of age and older. (If you are under 21 feel free to browse the resources or email for guidance on where you can find support).

“Having experienced my own journey navigating the struggles of living life, living with anxiety and addiction and struggling with Unwanted Same-Sex attraction…I felt trapped. I was harboring a secret that I believed, was never able to be addressed. Through a series of events and the guidance of experts, Rabbis and professionals I was able to see my struggle for what it is and was able to put my past behind me and look forward with hope.

We aren’t trapped with an identity that we don’t subscribe to. If we feel our struggle with Same-Sex Attraction is Unwanted we can address the struggle and live a healthy meaningful life. Same-Sex Attraction and a Gay label can be addressed and in many cases can be fully healed. Yes, the work around this is hard, but just as I’ve addressed this in my personal life and have been blessed to help many people address this struggle in their own lives, you can too. I’m very passionate about this and am here to support you on this journey.“

To arrange a free 30-minute consultation with Dovid click here.” Dovid can also be reached via email at DovidGreen41@gmail.com or via phone and WhatsApp at 917-719-1147. Please leave a message with your number some good times to reach you and he will call you back.

Websites

Therapists specializing in SSA:

  • Ari Sorotzkin – (718) 501-3944
  • Johnathan Hoffman – ‭+972 54-9453542 or US Number (914) 373-7055‬ (ridingtime516@gmail.com)
  • Dovid Schwartz – (718) 773-0063
  • Relief Organization – The leading therapist referral service in the Jewish world

Books & Videos

Articles

SSA Myths – 8 Myths about Same Sex Attraction